I had placing conversations with two purchasers this week, coping with the identical phenomena. It’s the very fact you’ll be able to know somebody for years and miss a key level of their character. An individual may also miss their very own character! I’ll clarify.

Within the first case, I advised a shopper that somebody of their life liked to brood. Likes to brood? Whaaaat?

When you’ve got a lighter character or simply are usually completely satisfied, the thought an individual would possibly take pleasure in brooding shouldn’t be prone to happen to you. “Brooding” may not even enter your thoughts and this not a failure. It might be like me working into somebody who was captivated with looking. I’ve no earthly concept what that appears like.

Discover there’s no judgement right here. There’s only a large void on this “looking slot”, in my schema. Till I meet somebody who loves looking, contemplating it isn’t prone to enter my thoughts.

I believed this was attention-grabbing however then enter shopper #2. Competitiveness got here up on this session.

A lot of you already know I’ve Mars conjunct Mercury my chart. This side is pushy and it needs to win. I used play playing cards with my father after I was a child. I liked playing cards, particularly Double Pinochle. My father and I performed as companions, routinely beating individuals to a pulp.

Do you see how I’m speaking? That’s the mindset. We took “in it to win it” to a complete different degree. Should you’re questioning, sure. My father additionally has Mars conjunct Mercury.

So the shopper is on the metaphorical card desk with somebody like me. Blood pumping. Straining to win. WANTS TO WIN,. Desires to be first. Desires to be on prime and prevail. That is going down behind their poker face. The shopper is taking part in playing cards however the Mars Mercury individual is at struggle.

You see the image there. Everybody seems regular. The one that is calmly taking part in playing cards doesn’t notice the individual they’re taking part in with has adrenaline coursing by means of their veins. Uncooked male vitality, raging.

The aggressive individual (me) has no clue the opposite individual’s coronary heart price is secure. I feel you are attempting to beat me on the identical degree of depth I’m attempting to beat… everybody.

In different phrases, I feel I’m regular and normal.
You assume you’re regular and normal and we’re each blind on this regard.

I now not do that nevertheless it’s solely as a result of I finished taking part in video games. I don’t like the sentiments that come up after I do. I hate the racing feeling and the simplest method to keep away from it’s to keep away from competitors. That is what I’ve executed for many years.

These consultations made me take into consideration this over the past couple days. I recall sitting on the card desk; I’d have been ten years previous or so.  We performed, solely with grownup males and whereas I’d been instructed to sit down calmly and never tip my hand underneath any circumstances, my impulse was reverse that. I sat nonetheless however perhaps you’ll be able to think about the stress.

The revelation right here is in coming to grasp the lads I performed with, outdoors of my father, have been most probably simply out for an evening of playing cards. Sure, we performed for cash, however on the whole, the typical individual performs playing cards to loosen up and be social. It definitely isn’t life or dying to them… and I positive want I’d have identified this on the time.  It appears an enormous piece to overlook!

So I’m telling you so you’ll be able to comprehend it at this time.  The individual you’re coping with is NOT you. Even while you’re associated!  My father and I’ve this one factor in widespread, certainly. It doesn’t imply we line up down the road. Clearly we don’t.

That is additionally an excellent instance of the worth of astrology.  Is competitiveness proven in a chart? YES. Is the love of brooding proven in  a chart? YES. However you’ve got to have the ability to learn a chart otherwise you’re not going to see it.

Additionally, while you see one thing like it is a chart, it provides data nevertheless it’s not definitive. Am I aggressive? YES. However I’m not competing and I am going to nice lengths to maintain it this manner, leaving this side of my Mars Mercury conjunction to play in different methods. Efficient communication?

It’s an enormous deal when the veil drops and also you see you’re continually interacting with individuals whose insides are international to you.  Lots of issues come from this. You would possibly see the thought you’re going to remake them in your picture is actually fruitless.

“Hey, Elsa!  Let’s play playing cards and simply loosen up about it.”

Oh actually? How? The minute I see the playing cards, my coronary heart comes alive.  Open the pack and it escalates. The sound of shuffling? I’m  a boxer ready for the bell to ring. Deal the playing cards and it’s steely focus – kill, kill, kill!

By now you don’t need to play playing cards with me. I perceive. I don’t play playing cards with me both, so there’s our commonality.  I needed to reveal this to make my level.

Can anybody relate? What do you consider this?