Hello, Elsa

Proper now, I’m having Pluto EXACTLY oppose my Venus in Leo. This opposition types a t-square with Pluto in Scorpio.

I’ve gone by numerous transformations final yr. Weight reduction surgical procedure, dropping 140 lbs. This has renewed confidence in me and I’ve begun dressing extra in leather-based (tight) and this has introduced me loads of consideration from potential sexual companions (I’m a homosexual make on grindr).

I’ve additionally started exploring my sexual facet extra and disgrace that I’ve had relating to it. I’ve additionally been in my first relationship with a Scorpio man, which sadly ended after 2 months, after we determined we have been sexually incompatible as a result of my kinks (thank God he desires to remain associates).

I suppose my query is, throughout a Pluto transit, issues will change or die no matter the way you attempt to cease it… however do we have now management over letting one thing die that’s unhealthy for us vs. letting one thing die that’s good for us?

Is Pluto a poison that WE can select what to poison, as an alternative of it being left to destiny, luck or likelihood?

Thanks
New Leather-based Man

Hello, New Leather-based Man. What an fascinating query, by no means thoughts your story is textbook on your transits. You’ve reworked and liberated your self. I needed to publish this!

To your query Pluto transits can carry lots that’s exterior an individual’s management however you too can get with this system, which I’d advocate. I really feel that is what you’ve performed right here.

The opportunity of your reworking your aesthetic and with it, your relationships, has all the time been there with natal Venus sq. Pluto. This modification didn’t occur to you, you selected it. This alone illustrates we do have one thing to say about what happens.

It appears to me, you felt the urge and went with it. Now you might be invigorated. What would have occurred had you resisted? I suppose you’d be feeling repulsive proper now.  So sure! There’s extra to it than destiny, luck and likelihood.

So far as what “dies”, it could or is probably not out of your management.  For instance, this Scorpio man killed the sexual relationship. It’s important to soak up that. However you killed your previous, self.  It appears that is additionally variable.

I additionally wish to point out, your sharing your story is prone to encourage and empower somebody.  One other Venus Pluto factor.

What do others assume?