I’ve written earlier than concerning the sorts of companions/lovers that you’re interested in and what you do to get their consideration. However what concerning the folks that you just appeal to with out attempting? I’m speaking concerning the varieties that all the time appear to be drawn to you, whether or not you’re or not. This magnetic attraction synastry.

The eighth Home

You’ll be able to blame the eighth Home for this. Dominated by Scorpio, it represents intercourse, shared sources, demise, compulsions, phobias and the rest that you just don’t have management over. Reverse from the 2nd Home of safety, virtually all the pieces concerning the eighth makes folks uneasy—together with these it attracts in.

The sort of folks that you just magnetize are decided by the signal on the cusp of the eighth.

For instance, In case your eighth Home cusp is in Aquarius, you’ll appeal to Aquarian varieties. Let’s say the ruler of Aquarius (Uranus) is in your 4th Home conjunct your Moon in Libra.

You’ll appeal to those that upset your emotional (Moon) steadiness (Libra). They’ll impression you deeply, because the 4th Home represents household, childhood and your previous. Be aware that they don’t have to be Solar signal Aquarians. They may have Aquarius emphasised of their chart by signal, planet (Uranus) or home (eleventh Home).

Can you alter this?

So what to do with this eighth Home vitality for those who don’t like who you’re drawing in? Can you alter issues? Sure and no. Aquarius on the cusp of the eighth will all the time be Aquarius. If you wish to appeal to extra steady varieties, you may’t morph the signal into Capricorn.

However the eighth is about transformation. It holds all of your baggage, so the folks it attracts in are going to mirror what’s sitting in your psychological basement.

Again to our Aquarian instance. Moon conjunct Uranus signifies a conflicting want for stability and pleasure. You’re not joyful when single, however restlessness kicks in if you cool down. Therefore the electrifying, upsetting folks that you just appeal to. The bottom line is discovering a steadiness at house (4th Home) between freedom and safety.

This may very well be carried out with an understanding companion or a house enterprise that meets your emotional wants. As soon as this inside steadiness is achieved, the folks you attract could develop into fascinating somewhat than upsetting. They’ll be inspiring associates as a substitute of traumatizing lovers.

Let’s take a look at one other instance

Scorpio on the cusp of the eighth and Pluto (ruler of Scorpio) within the seventh.

“Nice,” you would possibly suppose. I appeal to the sort of males I view as perfect, seventh Home companions.” However perhaps these guys develop into controlling, possessive stalkers. When do you get a relationship the place you may really breath? Because the seventh represents your projected qualities, the important thing could be to work by yourself sense of energy. Then you may expertise an intense, passionate relationship with out the manipulation.

The eighth Home just isn’t simple. It represents a few of the most difficult points that individuals will ever confront. Many occasions it’s simpler to keep away from it altogether. This is the reason coping with the folks it magnetizes may be so troublesome. Simply keep in mind that the vitality the eighth sends out begins from inside (Scorpio). You’ll be able to’t completely change it, however you may alter it with instruments starting from fundamental self-awareness to remedy.

As soon as the vitality shifts, the kinds that you just appeal to will develop into the healthiest folks for you.