What elements within the chart could make somebody merely unsuitable for marriage/partnering within the sense most consider it.
                                                                                      – Jamie

Hello, Jamie. This can be a exhausting query to reply.  First, “what most suppose”, is variable, relying on age and tradition.  I’m going to imagine you imply “conventional” marriage; monogamous, ’until dying will we half, in an effort to handle this.

The subsequent subject, is the truth that folks aren’t “pure”.  For instance, I’m a really loyal, wild card. Seems, I’m a first-rate spouse, particularly once I blot out / deny all of the Mars Mercury yelling I do.

I may also consider quite a few longtime married folks, the place one or the opposite has some very difficult side of their chart. The couple grapples with it and strikes alongside. Level being, you possibly can simply exclude a viable particular person, merely since you missed one thing.  One thing vital, like how you are feeling with the particular person; or the actual fact you develop and enhance once you’re round them.

One other drawback with this: some folks have wholesome shops for the tough power of their chart.  I’ve this weblog, for instance. It’s an enormous outlet, the place I can yell into the void, fairly than at my husband, who has a mouth of his personal.

That’s yet one more issue.  Somebody has a “drawback” of their chart. In the event that they marry somebody with the identical drawback, they are often fairly content material. Two large mouths, two rambling, stressed kind folks, {couples} who each need a whole lot of house, and so on.

That is an incomplete record of disclaimers however hopefully you get the thought.  Now listed below are potential issues to take a look at:

• Dedication-phobia – usually given to Uranus, so we’re speaking Uranus in seventh or aspecting private planets. (notice – I’ve this and I’m strong).
• Self-focus – maybe, large emphasis on the primary home. Individual is simply not designed to think about “the opposite”.
• Restlessness – Sagittarius, Jupiter and the ninth home.  At all times issues there’s something higher. (I’ve this as properly).

There are the principle issues that make it exhausting to associate, however there are various different issues to think about.  Marrying a depressive, for instance. Or a liar. Or an individual who can by no means be happy. Or an individual who is solely damaging.  How about an addict?

Astrology is phenomenal at figuring out potentials, however it doesn’t transcend that.  After I consider a chart for “unsuitability”, I search for a preponderance of proof and generally it’s actually there.  “There isn’t a manner anybody will ever really catch this man/gal…”  I can’t depend what number of instances I’ve stated that to folks.

Some individuals are really not designed for marriage. In these circumstances, the chart simply reveals no potential manner the particular person can dwell in a closed system.

Thanks for the query!